You know a girl, a friend who calls you buddy all the time. But maybe you want to be more than just friends with her. But what the hell does “buddy” mean?
Buddy was formerly used mainly as a term for friends and pals among men. But what does it mean when a woman calls you that?
It’s often hard to tell, especially when women send mixed signals all the time. It depends on the intonation, the situation, etc. But let’s talk about what the most likely variations are.
What if a girl calls you buddy?
When a girl calls you buddy, it either means it’s her frequently used term to refer to everybody there, or she sees you as a friend, and thus you’re in the friendzone, or she’s trying to be playful, or she’s mad at you. A lot depends on the intonation and the situation.
What does it mean when a girl calls you buddy?
1. She says buddy to everyone
It might be that “buddy” is her favorite term, and she says so to everyone. And there is no hidden meaning. This will be especially true if you don’t know each other that well.
Anyway, if you know each other more and she still calls you “buddy”, that means you’re probably in the friendzone.
But it could also mean she’s just hiding her feelings for you.
The way women work is completely unpredictable, so you won’t know for sure unless she tells you – or makes it obvious in another way.
It’s not always easy to tell whether someone is being casual or having a hidden subtext.
2. She sees you as a friend, and you’re in the friendzone
If you’re in the friendzone, she might call you buddy. It depends on how she says it and how well you know each other.
If you think there might be a chance that she wants to date you, then this one is not conclusive proof that you’re in the friendzone.
And even when you’re in the friendzone, it’s still possible that you can turn things around.
3. She is trying to be playful
She might also call you buddy because she’s just being playful and casual, or she’s teasing you. If it happens a lot, then you know what that means—wink wink.
There, too, it depends on how well you know each other. Maybe she’s just trying to be nice to you and friendly towards you.
If you have no idea whether she likes you or not, then it could mean anything.
The easiest way to find out where you stand is to confront her, as we advise below.
4. She is mad at you
She may also call you “buddy” when you’ve upset her with something, or ironically or sarcastically.
For example, “What’s your problem, dude?“
“Ew, that’s gross, buddy“.
In that case, you don’t have to care that much about the “buddy” word and just move on. It probably doesn’t have some hidden meaning.
What to reply when a girl calls you buddy?
There are two ways to react when a girl calls you “buddy”.
1. Ignore it
You can ignore it and pretend you didn’t notice. If she calls you buddy again, just respond casually as if you didn’t hear it.
In this case, you’re kind of resigning yourself to the idea that your friendship could be something more romantic.
On the other hand, it’s the safest play if you don’t want to lose your friend.
But don’t expect to get the girl if you don’t express the true feelings you have for her.
2. Confront her
If you like her and want to take your relationship to the next level, then the best way to do this is to confront her about it.
It doesn’t have to be hostile or aggressive. That’s not necessary at all! You can just say something like, “Hey, you know what? I’m actually not very happy when you call me buddy.“
She will probably ask why. And now is your chance to tell her how you really feel about her. If you don’t, others will!
At worst, she won’t feel the same way about you, but at least she’ll start to see you in a slightly different light as a potential partner.
And eventually, she might develop her feeling for you.
Girls like bold guys, and confronting her like that is very brave.
But there is also a small chance that you will completely destroy your friendship. But I think that’s unlikely. You can always be friends, and it’s pointless not to take your shot just because of fear.
If a girl calls you buddy, are you friendzoned?
No, not always.
But in most cases, the girl is trying to be casual and friendly, so it means you’re in the friendzone.
You need to find out if there is a chance that she likes you more than just friends before getting your hopes up.
If you really like her and want something serious with her, then you should confront her about it.
But even if she’s not interested in you as anything more than a friend, at least now she knows how you feel and might develop feelings for you eventually!
Related: What If a Girl Calls You Bro?
Girl flirts with me but calls me buddy
When a girl flirts with you but calls you buddy, it’s a good sign. She’s probably just trying to be playful and see how you react to her calling you buddy.
If you want to go out with her, just ask her straight up. Keep in mind that she probably doesn’t know how you feel about her, so take the leap!
When you don’t try it, you’ll never know.
Related: What If a Girl Calls You Dude?
When a girl calls you “buddy”, it can mean different things depending on the context and how well you know her. It could be that she’s just being playful and casual or that she’s interested in taking your relationship to the next level.
Or you could just be in the friendzone.
If you like her and want to date her, then you should confront her about it. Even if she’s not interested in you romantically, at least now she knows how you feel.
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